Monday, October 11, 2010

Video links of Tashmina

Yes, I know, finally posting these.  This first video is the first day we visited.  And I do realize I misspelled "orphanage" in the title but I can't change it now.  Anyway, the woman in the green shirt is Dr. Victoria who we asked to come and do an evaluation.

Link to day 1 at the orphanage


As a comparison between a couple days, here is a video clip of Tashmina playing with rattles and also taking a little romp around the room showing off her walking skills.

Link to day 3 at the orphanage


* FYI, the Flip video sharing links expired.  If anyone has not seen these yet and wants to look again, I will resend to Flip and you can check them out, just give me a ping.

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Leaving Moscow

We were typing out our blog update this morning when Anna arrived very early to pick us up, so we shut down the laptop and hopped in the car. We did run into some traffic at different points so it made for a stressless wait through the jams. So for now we'll do the BlackBerry update.

Yesterday's visit with Takhmina was a bit hectic as we had to fill out many official forms. While one of us could play, the other had to fill out the required information and sign. Three copies of one document, in both Russian and English, and two copies of another in both languages. Before we knew it our time was done and no pictures were taken. Next time we see Takhmina will be in about 8 weeks. The paperwork goes back to the Department of Education. From there it will go into the federal court system where they will assign to us a date to appear and plead our case to adopt.

One surprise of the visit is that we were asked what her name would be going forward. We thought we had time to decide that. Figured the US embassy would be the one to ask that question. We didn't want to change it too much but also wanted to make it a tad easier for the American weak tongues to handle. :) We settled on Tashmina (with an assumed nickname of Tasha) and a middle name of Katherine.

For our last dinner out we decided to walk up one of the main roads called Tverskaya which was supposedly filled with restaurants. We found night clubs, tech gadget stores, 24 hour shoe stores (for those that really need a new pair of boots at 4am), McDonalds, etc, but no nice quaint restaurants. Decided to turn into the side streets and found the perfect place to finish up. It was called Cafe Margarita. Very good food (the waitress said she had no recommendations because everything is "smachny", or delicious. She was correct, at least for what we ordered. They also had live music of two violinists and a pianist. They played a variety of fun songs and handed out shakers to the patrons to keep the beat with. I will post a video of that when we return home. Yes, I know, I owe a few videos now. :)

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Day Three at Orphanage Number 5

Day three was a great visit with Takhmina.  We brought some Russian shortbread style crackers that she rather enjoyed.  She didn't know what to do with them at first, but Jacki poked a little piece far enough in her mouth that she had to try and taste it.  A second's worth of being unsure, and then she realized it tasted pretty good.  Several crackers later and she was through.

Today Takhmina was totally comfortable with us.  She played with blocks and rattles, and was throwing toys back and forth with both Jacki and myself.  Near the end of our visit she even decided to show off her walking skills and took a romp around the playroom.

It's pretty late and I'm tired so I will be lazy and just post a bunch of pictures.  Tomorrow I promise to post some videos.  Takes a bit of processing time to create the movies from the Flip movie clips.  One is generating right now, but I'm not going to make it through the whole bunch.  :)  Anyway, enough with the excuses and on to the pictures:





Food, Shopping, and Tourism Update

Sitting in the hotel room, waiting for 11pm to do our daily Skype session with Ryan, and we decided to do an update for our dining and shopping experiences.  (OK, truth is I typed this in last night, but didn't post it because I didn't finish it... now posting it!)  So far we have not had a bad food experience yet.  Even just our Sbarro pizza slice and beer tonight.  :)  Yes, we cheaped out, but that was because of our late lunch at Taras Bulba mentioned in our earlier post.

Lets start from the beginning to keep it in chronological order.  Our first night here we were so tired we didn't want to go anywhere out, especially since we hadn't exchanged any money yet and didn't want to worry about cash issues.  Good thing, because tips are often not charged here so you need some cash on the side for them.  Instead, we stayed in the Marriott and went to the Flat Iron grill.  We sat near the Fenway Park sign.  No kidding.  At least one of us kept authentic with the traditional pelmeni, which are dumplings filled with meat.  They were in a chicken broth with a dollop of sour cream on top... yum.  The other of us had a pork filet... boring.  ;)  OK, Jacki did say it was good, but the pelmeni were far better I'm sure!

On our free day we started at Cafe Mania.  Waffle for Jacki, Blini with apples for myself (peek ahead two days to see what Jacki has for breakfast).  Green tea that Jacki described as a combination of dirt and grass.  I thought it was ok... if you added enough sugar the dirt taste went away leaving just the grass flavoring.  :)  We caught a quick late lunch at Sbarro which included a couple pizza slices and some buffet style extras.  We were just going to hit McDonalds, which turns out to be extremely popular with the Russians, but there were literally over a hundred people waiting in the lines there so opted for the healthier pizza.  On the way back to the hotel we stopped at a mini supermarket to get some water, beer, yogurt, and some candies.  In the evening we went to a place right around the corner from the Marriott called Cafe Esenin.  Food was really great and the service "interesting".  We had a young waiter who was quite quirky.  He couldn't understand my Russified Ukrainian and when trying to explain things to him just got confused.  He also delivered my food about 15 minutes before Jacki's and then proceeded to deliver the check while only half way through that meal.

The first orphanage visit day was hectic.  Breakfast was yogurt and granola bars in the room, and lunch passed us by.  We did all have a little smorgasborg in the car though.  In addition to our usual four, we also had Leyla the adoption agency rep in there.  We snacked on Twizzlers, Trader Joe's sweet and spicy pecans, and the Russian candies we picked up at the grocery store.  Vitali loves the pecans and insisted they were walnuts (via the dictionary).  Russians don't seem to know what a pecan is so on our next trip we will bring an assortment for comparison sake.

After being dropped off we headed out for some souvenier shopping and Jacki was so hungry we looked for a place to get a bite.  After much confusion and searching for a locale a guidebook recommended, we settled in to a place that translated into English was just "Beer Hall".  Cafeteria style buffet with a selection of beers.  Jacki decided the food was a bit outside her safe zone and stuck with chicken noodle soup, minus the chicken we found out afterwards.  I had the beef stroganof, which for some reason was made with chicken instead of beef.  Somehow it fled the chicken pot and got into the beef stroganof pot.  It turned out to be rather tasty, but Jacki still didn't believe that it could be and refused a taste.  :)

It was at this point we hit the Old Arbat street, which is basically a walking mall area, but filled with tourist shops.  Jacki was into shopping mode and I decided to just hover and be invisible.  Turns out that when each store has 4 or 5 girls working in them, there is no being invisible.  At one spot Jacki had one girl assisting in the selection process while I had two girls conversing in various forms of English, Ukrainian, and Russian.  They were smart enough to at least go ask Jacki if it was ok for them to start serving me alcohol while I waited.

Later that evening we went looking for a dinner venue.  The funny part about this is that earlier Jacki had asked the front desk about a place she read about called Simple Things.  We got the impression from the girl at the Marriott that it was a lunch place and just went looking for something good looking.  We found a place that we could see into the basement through small windows that was crowded and filled with wine bottles.  Took a while trying to find the entrance and the sign was hard to read behind planters.  The name was "Prostoye Veshchi".  I later said to Jacki that that translates into something along the line of Straight Things.  It took a smack over the head for me to realize that was the place Jacki was looking for all along.  Anyway, the food was great and the waitress had a fun spunky attitude.  Definately a recommended stop if you are eating near the Kremlin sometime.

Next morning started at Cafe Mania again.  Jacki had the Blini with apples so I had to choose something else.  The Blini were so good I had to stick with them and went for cream and strawberries, another hit.  We opted for cappuccino instead of the dirt/grass water.  It was very good.  :)  We snacked in the car on the rest of the pecans and some other goodies before being dropped off in front of the Cathedral of Christ the Savior.  I guess during Soviet times it was demolished to make some kind of structure for Lenin but never got very far.  It became the world's largest open air swimming pool until the cathedral was rebuilt.

The intended next stop was the Pushkin Museum of Fine Arts so Jacki could see some art work.  Learning from our Kremlin mistake, we stopped at a Cafe, had a quick bite with some more cappuccino.  It was then off to see the Monet's et.al.  An interesting thing that Jacki noticed is that the only protection that some of these million dollar Monet's is that there is a little babushka sitting in the corner ready to pounce if you put your hands all over one.  Beware!



Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Day Two at Orphanage Number 5

First off, if you were wondering where the post from yesterday went, we found out that we were not allowed to post names/pictures unless the blog was permission protected.  We have since listed all allowed to enter the site and put the post back.

Now on to day number 2.  We arrived just after noon and the caretaker brought Takhmina in soon after.  She was a bit nervous at first but then the caretaker brought in one of her friends for another family that was visiting as well.  As soon as she saw her cohort, she opened up and relaxed.  We had her smiling and playing with the orphanage toys, the ones we brought, and the toys the other couple brought.  She wound up being very curious and we saw her strong personality shine through when she decided she wanted to play with the toys that her friend was supposed to be using.  Takhmina also seemed to really be interested in trucks and trains.  Ryan will have to keep a good look out for his matchbox cars and train sets!

Here are a couple pictures to show you what she looks like:



Again, rather too quickly, the caretakers came in to take Takhmina for her next nap.  We were shown the way out and off we went for a late lunch.  Anna and Vitali took us to a great restaurant, Taras Bulba.  The waitstaff spoke Ukrainian and there were menu's in Ukrainian as well.  We had good great ethnic Ukrainian food and even some unknown horseradish laced alcohol on our way out.  The manager was pleased that an American could speak Ukrainian with him and commented that even though Jacki could speak only English that perhaps he should have married an English speaking woman.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Today we meet Takhmina

After a quick breakfast and run to find a bank open to exchange money (most banks don't open till 10am), we were off to the Department of Education. There we waited our turn to speak to the officials as international adopters come here for only two hours on Tuesday mornings. We had to describe our home and family life, showed a photo album of ourselves, and then when satisfied with our responses, were shown a picture of a little girl named Takhmina. Once some paperwork was signed we were released to go visit orphanage number 5.

Finding this orphanage turned out to be quite a challenge. The normal location was being renovated, and the temporary one was hidden in a maze of small side streets that Anya and Vitali had never been to before. Asking people in the area proved to be unhelpful as well until one old babushka pointed us in the correct direction.

The head doctor was not available as she was at some conference, and nobody would allow us to see Takhmina until she returned. Finally she did and after some preliminary discussions regarding health and background we went up and they brought in Takhmina. She was wary a bit which is normal, but showed very stubborn tendencies. When someone tried to pull a toy away from her she would not let go and made it quite known she did not like that. We got a chance to spend time with her, but all too quickly the caretaker came to take her back, stating that that was all for the first day.

Tomorrow we'll post pictures. Technically we were not supposed to take pictures today and the one's I snuck in on the BlackBerry were not very good.

Monday, October 4, 2010

Tourist day

Today's destination is Red Square and the Kremlin. We had a tough time sleeping last night, with the time change and naps on and off throughout the various flights.  Both TZ and I woke up at 2am unable to go back to sleep for several hours.  Next thing we knew it was 10:30am and the hotel was running a fire drill test.  It was a loud wake up call, but we were glad to get up and start our day.

After a quick trip to Coffee Mania for some terribly bitter green tea and breakfast, we walked the 10 minutes to the Kremlin.  "Wow" is what I can say.  It is a really beautiful place to see.  It is majestic, colorful and inspiring.  These pictures don't do it justice.

As we entered Red Square by the Kilometer Zero site (the technical center of Moscow), this cathedral was first on our left.  It was a beautiful sunny day, although the morning started out chilly it cleared up by midday.

There were tons of tourists around, like us, and while one of us was embarrassed to ask others to take our picture, the other of us found it fun (guess who was who on this one!).  On this picture, a very nice Chinese woman took our picture and we took her's with her friend in kind.

Here is the back side of St Basils, still beautiful.

We left Red Square to find the entrance to the Kremlin.  We passed a changing of the guards procession at the tomb of the unknown soldier.  You can see the Russian style of marching, with their high kicks and knees straight.  The entrance to the Kremlin was right ahead.  We should have stopped for lunch at this point, but didn't unfortunately.  There was a lot to see in the Kremlin.


One of the first sights inside the Kremlin is the Tsar Cannon, and again we exchanged photography opportunities with a large group of Asian students.  The other student had the same camera as we did, so they got a good shot of us!

Most of the spots in the Kremlin are not allowed to be photographed, but the highlight was the tour of the Armoury.  We had a free audio guide that led us through seeing a selection of Faberge eggs, which were so intricately made.  We saw the Tsar crown, which every Tsar wore just once, during their coronation.  We also saw royal wear - the dresses worn by Catherine the Great, the robes of Peter the Great, and even what the royal horses wore.  We saw many pieces of jewelry and the jewels in royal tableware, like spoons and wine goblets, and other adorning the covers of religious texts.  There also were royal carriages and weaponry (which was TZ's favorite, of course).

Sunday, October 3, 2010

We have arrived



Flight from London to Moscow was almost empty. We were both able to get an hour of sleep or so but are still very tired. We were met at the Domodedovo airport (above) by Anya, our translator, with a smiling face and hugs.

We waited out front for Natali the driver to pick us up. Traffic scene at the airport is total free-for-all. Turns out that Natali is Ukrainian and Anya is Belorussian, so with TZ's Ukrainian the three of them had quite the language exchange (of which Jacki missed out a bit). Anya mentioned that this was the first time in 20 years doing translating for the adoption agency that she's run across someone who could speak the language. However, Jacki was spending a lot of time wide-eyed as Natali wove in and out of traffic at break neck speeds, and confirmed that she still is prone to car sickness.



Here is the Courtyard Marriott - pretty simple but it will work well for the week.  The location is great, as we are not far from the city center with the Kremlin and Red Square.  After some much needed rest tonight, we will hit the sights tomorrow before our big day on Tuesday.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

We're off to Moscow

After a lot of waiting the day has finally arrived. We're on our way to meet our new son or daughter. We left a smiling Ryan to watch over the house and cats. He is looking forward to daily Skype sessions and getting pictures of his soon to be sibling.

The airport checkin went smoothly except for some slight stress while rearranging luggage on the airport floor. Note to self, the bathroom scale lies occasionally. After moving six pounds from one bag to another, we were off to London.

No sleep on the flight and a 3 1/2 hour layover in Heathrow left us looking for a quiet place to snooze. Found a nice out of the way nook but unfortunately we have timed the "unattended luggage warning" message over the PA system at every six minutes. Expect an incoherent update from Moscow!

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Moscow Itinerary / October 2 - 9

Itinerary for British Airways:

BA212:
     Oct 2: departs Boston @ 6:00pm / arrives London @ 5:15am
BA872:
     Oct 3: departs London @ 8:55am / arrives Moscow @ 3:55pm

BA873:
     Oct 9: departs Moscow @ 5:15pm / arrives London @ 6:20pm
BA239:
     Oct 9: departs London @ 7:30pm / arrives Boston @ 9:45pm

Itinerary for Moscow lodging:

Courtyard Moscow City Center (Marriott)
7 495 9813300

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